I happened to stay for couple of hours in the house of a girl, one that I know for personal reasons. As always, we talked, we laughed, and etc. I believe until the moment she start crying, everything was, well appeared to be, fine.
Apparently many of us would, or must agree that we could not understand her. A reason, which she was upset about, was simply a basketball game, she wanted to play. And this is not a popular game with a ticket, it’s just simply a basketball game between, us, the visitor of her house. Of course, it was not right moment to bear sweats under dress, but 2 little brats -I am calling them brats, because, well, they were the idiots- joked around that we may be able to play one or two games. She ran off, preparing for game, and then this two brats, again, irresponsibly started defending themselves; it was all joke.
One would notice it was a joke. But she, as again we already knew, was going through harsh times. She definitely would not have capacity to bear those practical jokes. She utterly crashed after she heard, “it was all joke.” Shouting that this was a sort of mockery, she started blaming everyone in the house for everything happened or going to happen to her, except those who did not say yes. -Unfortunately, it was only me.-
After she ran off through the door, -I wonder where she went after- they started discussing about her behavior. It was then, it was their behavior, not hers, which caught my eye. Do they really think they will be able to understand her? I mean, as always, the discussion will end with defining her as to be misbehaving. Do they really think setting her to be misbehaving would solve the mystery? Truly thinks so?
I believe all that took place during my short visit, was simply their fault. They should have told her, that they cannot understand her. If they could, they wouldn’t be discussing over dinner table about it. And then again, no one told her that they are miserably emotionless like I have told to many other, to at least calm her. No one would want to get their hands dirty, like I did many days ago. -R